I grew up in Melbourne, Australia, then spent a few years in QLD before finding my true home in beautiful Sydney.
My early years were shaped by the hot Australian summers and freezing winters in the mountains around Melbourne.
My first loves were my beautiful animals, cats, dogs, bunnies and horses. Barbie was a huge inspiration for me as a child, igniting my love of glamour. I loved anything dramatic, I adored dressing up in my mums disco gear and tap shoes and making up plays. I think that says it all really!
Another formative aspect of my childhood was my very strict German upbringing. I’m grateful that it made me punctual and instilled a great work ethic. You know what they say about those kinky Germans!
In my early 20’s I started to explore the Melbourne music and fetish scenes. My first fetish experience was at the Hellfire club in Melbourne. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing! I felt like I had come home. I had found my people and found my tribe!
My first night at Hellfire, I dragged my boyfriend along and excitedly put our name down on the list. I tied him to the scaffolding, pulled down his pants and started flogging him. I couldn’t believe my luck! It was so much FUN! I wish I still had the photos. From then on, I knew there was something in it for me and I sought out all sorts of underground activities.
Then one day I picked up Cleo magazine, inside was an article about a BDSM House called Salon Kitties and the professional Mistresses that worked there. I was just hooked! I had to find out where this place was and who they were.
It took a while, but I managed to hunt down some Sydney newspapers. No Luck! But finally I found the ad for Salon Kitties in the Yellow Pages.
At this time I’d been living in Queensland for a few years and was bored silly. Way too much sun and way too vanilla. I craved adventure. I wanted the rock and roll lifestyle.
So I picked up my phone and dialed that number. Mistress Amanda invited me to come on down for an interview. I don’t think she expected me to actually turn up.
But turn up I did, with my suitcase! I had my interview and promptly moved into the pub across the road with my one little suitcase.
They thought I would last a week. I was there for eight years full-time and became one of their most successful senior Mistresses.
That first time, walking through the house, I couldn’t believe it, all these fabulous, glamorous, confident women in stages of dress and undress.
I wanted to be one of the crew and I certainly got my wish. Mistress Jade was one of the first to take me under her wing, and getting to know all the different women there was an education in itself. They taught me to embrace who I was. I am still friends with many of them to this day. I had found my place in the world.
Discovering the Sydney party scene was wild, I hit every party I could and danced and flirted my way through Sydney.
Needing a break, but still dedicated to fetish, I was the creatrix of the Max Black adult shop in Newtown. Max Black was a new concept in adult retail which went on to transform adult shops across the country.
My goal was to give people their dreams and transform their fantasies into real life. It was important to me to support the fetish and LGBTIQA+ communities and not only did I provide a welcoming, safe, and educational space I also put on workshops and parties. I even started my own series of fetish latex parties, called ‘Rubber Bastard’.
After selling my half of Max Black, I went into behind-the-scenes work but also started working independently, as SK had closed down by then. It was certainly a different landscape; the professional scene had changed a huge deal. I loved it, though; having total control of the way I worked was great. My old house clients found me again (and still do to this day).
During this time, I also travelled a lot overseas, especially to Fetish Factory in Florida. I partied and played with the most fabulous people from around the world.
Currently, I enjoy working independently but with the support of my fabulous coven of dominant “sisters”.
I adore what I do, and take great delight in playing with respectful fetishists, masochists, hedonists, subs, slaves, and bottoms. You should feel confident to explore your innermost fantasies with me in a safe space. Your secrets are safe with me.
I am sadistic, talented, intelligent, compassionate and understanding, I relish the connection between us, and your willingness to give me all your energy and open yourself to me.
My goal is to inspire and lead people into being themselves and exploring their needs in an authentic, honest and empowering way.
As they say, make your obsession your profession-I truly love what I do.